WE CANNOT LET HATE HAVE THE FIRST LAST OR LOUDEST WORD
By Rev. Dr. William J. Barber II
OP ED for NYT, 6/13/2016
The Old Testament teaches: Whoever hates disguises himself with his lips and harbors deceit in his heart. Proverbs 26:24
The New Testament adds to the definition of Hate: But whoever hates his brother is in the darkness and walks in the darkness. He does not know where he is going, because the darkness has blinded his eyes. John 2:11
Tears are the order of the day. We mourn the loss of life. The death and destruction. The hurt and the pain of so many in Orlando.
Many of our brothers and sisters that were killed and wounded were members of the LGBTQ community. But, in a larger sense, in a better sense, we must say from our hearts, they were from our community. They are our brothers and sisters. They are members of our human family of love. In death, as they were in life. . . God’s creations.
But while we cry, we must also gain our composure and not allow hate or cynicism to have the first, the loudest, or the last word.
We cannot use the deceit of hate as the path through our pain into our tomorrow. Hate fuels hate. A culture of hate creates actions of hate. Racial hate, LGBTQ hate, religious hate, class hate, and the rhetoric of hate. The culture of hate creates the actions of hate.
The Forces of Hate have watched people coming together against colonial oppression and exploitation. The Forces of hate have seen people in America, coming together and challenging the system of racism, the system of sexism, and the oppression against LGBT people. The Forces of hate have seen millions of white and straight and males coming together rejecting the sirens of extremism.
We are coming together across racial lines, gender identity lines, and religious lines.
As late as last Friday, on the great bend in the Ohio River where the Port of Louisville was built, the forces of hate was the only group not welcome as the Islamic Service for the most beloved Muslim in today’s world was transitioned on songs and poems and laughter of Love. People of all faiths, races, the full breadth of humanity, came together to cover Muhammad Ali with clouds of love. The forces of Hate hated this outpouring of love for an Islamic Messenger of Love. Hate would rather see division and degradation among the people of the world, rather than the beloved community.
On Saturday night, hate slouched into Orlando and tried to seize the moral low ground again. This is not the first time hate reacted to the rise of love.
During the long dark night of slavery, 250 years for our ancestors, hate reacted to freedom’s call with lynchings and other forms of degrading murders.
In 1898, in the largest city in North Carolina at the time, where Black and White leaders had been working together and had managed to use the vote to win political power there and in much of the Carolina Delta or the Black Belt, hate went into a rage. With a Gatling Gun mounted on a wagon, crazed by racist hatred against white and black fusion leaders, scores of Blacks were shot down in cold blood. http://www.history.ncdcr.gov/1898-wrrc/report/report.htm The fusion government was violently overthrown. Hate metastasized the Wilmington model across the south, adding terror to extra-legal enforcement of the new Jim Crow laws, with mass murders in many large southern cities. In 1908, hate reached up into Springfield, Illinois, and the forces of love and resistance were awakened, resulting in the formation of the NAACP the next year. Rebuilding the white-black fusion movement was slow going. At the beginning only revolutionary Christians, Jews, and other whites who read their Old and New Testaments carefully, understood the need to, and the effective methods to resist the forces of hate. After WWI, in 1921, hate reacted in the Tulsa Race Riots; 300 people were shot and killed some say more. Just 21 years ago, a hate-crazed militia member detonated a bomb that killed 168 people in Oklahoma City.
On June 12, 1963, a day after President Kennedy declared civil rights to be a moral issue, hate snuck around a corner at midnight, and murdered Medgar Evers coming home from an NAACP meeting. Two weeks week after a worldwide show of love at the March on Washington where Dr. King told a quarter million people in person, and millions more on television about his dream of love and racial harmony, hate, crazed by the largest display of love ever in our nation, set off a bomb in a Birmingham church that blew up four girls just when they finished their Sunday school lesson about Love. When hundreds of students, Black, white, Christian, Jew, gay and straight, decided to go to Mississippi to expose the violently enforced disenfranchisement of Black voters in that state of hate, hate reacted with its racial phobic rage, and murdered a Black Mississippi youth, and his two friends from the north, a young white student and a young Jewish man. The next year, 1965, thousands chose to march and fight for voting rights from Selma to Montgomery and, once again, hate reacted with rage and violence. It killed a Unitarian minister, a Black veteran, and a white union woman from Detroit.
Hate went into a classic phobic rage a year ago this week. A young man, filled with racial-phobia, went crazy when the people in the Bible Study circle began discussing the meaning of Mark 4:16, the chosen passage for that night: “Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy.” When the phobic man felt the love among the circle, he pulled out his weapon and murdered nine people who had welcomed the stranger into their circle. Yes. Hate always reacts. But, hate is not the answer.
Down through the years, many who have experienced hate-caused suffering still refuse to respond with hate; they had faith that love was still greater.
Hate always reacts when love is taking hold, when it begins to conquer the fearful heart. Hate wants us to respond and react with hate. Hate wants an unending circle of hate. But we cannot fall into Hate’s trap. We must not respond in hate. Not in our politics. Not in our actions. Not in our gun policies. If we do hate wins. Acts of hate should not be politicized. The masses of people always lose in the politics of hate.
The cynical and the sinister among us will try to use this moment of pain to push and widen divisions among us. History has shown this to be true. There have always been those who want to aggravate the divisions between blacks and poor whites, between immigrant and American-born citizens, between gay and straight. Now they will try to promote divisions between the LGBTQ community and all Muslims. We cannot allow our hearts in this moment of hurt — born of hate — to succumb to the sinister politics of cynicism. In the shadow of Lincoln, and the relentless suffering and death caused by slavery ended 98 years earlier, Dr. King at the March on Washington said:
The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people. For many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.
Today, even as we abhor violence by anyone, hate by anyone, terror by anyone, we cannot allow those who would prostitute our pain to cause us to distrust all Muslims. Do not generalize from a deranged man consumed by hatred, to an ancient religion based on love.
My friends, despite what you see on television, this is not a mere political moment. This is a moral moment.
Those who push and promulgate the politics and language of hate need to shut up! Those who know the politics and power of love need to speak up!
We cannot allow those who have stirred up hate to now offer themselves as the saviors from hate. Yes. I refer to a man who is running for President, and I refer to his deceitful statement, which points out the wrong way with the wrong wisdom.
“Last night, our nation was attacked by a radical Islamic terrorist. It was the worst terrorist attack on our soil since 9/11, and the second of its kind in 6 months. My deepest sympathy and support goes out to the victims, the wounded, and their families.
“If we do not get tough and smart real fast, we are not going to have a country anymore.” Mr. Trump closed with his message of hate. “Because our leaders are weak, I said this was going to happen – and it is only going to get worse. I am trying to save lives and prevent the next terrorist attack. We can’t afford to be politically correct anymore.”
Mr. Trump cynically plays with the pain of people to promote his hate-filled rhetoric and policies.
Those who have in their history the commonality of pain and suffering from hate, know that those who have ultimately won the day are those who chose love in the face of, and in the aftermath of, hate.
They are those who chose not to let hate determine their lives. They are those who rose from the crucifixion of hate to the new life and resurrection power of love, truth, and justice.
So now, my sisters and brothers, we must choose whether we will respond with hate’s petulant reactions. Or will we choose to respond with Love, Truth, and Justice. Will we choose to come closer together, and live in love more boldly? Or will we give in to fear, hate, and division? Will we say more guns . . . more violence?
Let us choose to join those who lived before us, who in the face of hate chose community, who chose love, who chose non- violence, who chose the way of justice. Three weeks after Dr. King was murdered, Coretta Scott King his widow, in the face of hate, spoke to a gathering in New York City, much like this gathering, and said : My dear friends of peace and freedom: I come to New York today with a strong feeling that my dearly beloved husband, who was snatched suddenly from our midst slightly more than three weeks ago now, would have wanted me to be present today.
Though my heart is heavy with grief from having suffered an irreparable personal loss, my faith in the redemptive will of God is stronger today than ever before.
This is the time for us to believe in the redemptive will of God. The Love of God even stronger than before. This is the time for us to stand for love even more. To believe even more. To hold, help, and honor the humanity and imago dei in all of us even the more.
So as we cry today, let our tears be a fresh baptism and commitment to walk together children and refuse to get weary!!!!!